The difference between a good blow job and a bad blow job, (is there such a thing as a bad blow job?) is her desire to give it. LADIES! Here are a few tips that may help if you are less than enthusiastic about pleasuring your man orally. Before and during the act, suck on an ice cube. This will numb your mouth and throat which will relax the muscles in your throat and make it easier to control your gag reflexes. He will probably enjoy the cold sensation as well. Only take as much as you can handle. You do not have to swallow his penis to give him great pleasure. However, if you want to do so, lay on your back with your head hanging over the side of the bed. This position opens the throat and makes it easier for the penis to enter and slide down. Of course, he will be standing over you. Using the ice cubes to numb the mouth and throat also helps when trying to become acclimated to the taste and texture of his semen when he reaches orgasm. GUYS! Taking vitamin C will make your semen less thick and may make it easier to swallow for some. Also, drinking different fruit juices on a regular basis will give your semen a sweeter taste. Experiment with different techniques to discover what pleases him and what excites you doing it. The pleasures of sex don't come from the end result but from the steps we take in getting there.